Lesson 6 of 6

Keeping a Conversation Going

Use reactions, fillers and active listening to sound engaged and fluent.

13 minLevel B1

Fluent conversation isn't about long speeches. It's about reacting, showing interest and keeping the flow. Native speakers constantly use small reactions ("Oh really?", "No way!") and fillers ("I mean", "you know"). Without them, even perfect grammar can sound cold.

LearnThe key ideas

Reactions that show you're listening

FeelingReactions
InterestOh really? Oh yeah? Interesting!
SurpriseNo way! Seriously? Are you kidding?
Good newsThat's awesome! Good for you! Congrats!
Bad newsOh no, I'm sorry to hear that. That's rough.
UnderstandingGot it. That makes sense. I see.

Fillers: buying time to think

Instead of silence or "umm" for five seconds, natives use: "Well...", "Let me think...", "I mean...", "You know...", "That's a good question."

Use them in moderation. Too much "like" and "you know" sounds sloppy, but a few make you sound relaxed and natural.

ListenListen and repeat

  • Oh really? What happened next?Interest plus a follow-up question.
  • That's awesome, congrats!Reacting to good news.
  • Well, I mean, it depends.Buying time.
  • Oh no, that's rough. Are you okay?Showing empathy.

AvoidCommon mistakes

Silence while the other person talks✓ Mm-hmm. / Oh yeah? / Right.Small sounds show you're listening.
"Ok." after big news✓ "No way! That's amazing!"Match the other person's energy.
Using "like" every few words✓ Use fillers occasionallyToo many fillers sound unprepared.

SpeakShadowing practice

Press Listen, then repeat straight away, copying the speed, rhythm and tone. Say each sentence three times, then record yourself.

  • No way! When did that happen?
  • Oh, that makes sense. I didn't know that.
  • Well, I mean, it's kind of complicated, you know?
Record the sentences above and compare with the audio.

CheckQuick quiz

1. Your friend got a new job. You say:

2. Your colleague's father is sick. You say:

3. Good way to buy time before answering:

PracticeToday's speaking task

Watch a 5-minute podcast or interview clip. Write down every reaction and filler you hear, then use three of them in your next conversation.

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